One of the basic principles of modern life is maintenance of normal human relations and aspiration to avoid the conflicts. In turn the respect and attention can be deserved only at observance of politeness and restraint. Therefore to be appreciated nothing by the people surrounding us so expensively, as politeness and sensitivity. But in life we quite often should face roughness, sharpness, disrespect for the identity of other person. The reason here that we underestimate culture of behavior of the person, his manners.
Manners belong to culture of behavior of the person and are regulated by etiquette. The etiquette means kind and respect for all people, regardless of their position and a social standing. It includes the courteous treatment of the woman, the respectful attitude towards seniors, forms of the address to seniors, forms of the address and a greeting, the rule of conducting conversation, behavior at a table. In general the etiquette in a civilized society coincides with the general requirements of politeness which cornerstone the principles of humanity are.
To put it briefly, while all other Europe rolled in mezhduusobitsa, and feudal orders kept in full force, Italy was the country of new culture. This country also deserves on justice to be the called etiquette homeland.
And it is valid, you probably had to witness as someone the third, watching the raged debaters, can put an end to misunderstanding by the friendly, tactful remark, sympathetic aspiration to understand the point of view of both debaters.
It should be noted that the tactful and well-mannered person behaves according to norms of etiquette not only at official ceremonies, but also at home. Original politeness which cornerstone goodwill is, is caused by the act, sense of proportion prompting that is possible and that cannot be done under these or those circumstances. Such person will never break a public order, neither the word, nor an act will not offend another, will not offend its advantage.